So uhhhh…You Swing?

So I attended a Swingers “meet n’ greet” this weekend. I wouldn’t say I’m a “swinger”, but when someone gives you the opportunity to attend a shindig like this…you gotta! Duh!

You essentially have a bunch of swingin’ peeps payin’ a cover to attend a party where they can meet other swingin’ peeps…simple enough right? Isn’t that how “meet and greets” are supposed to work? It wasn’t any different from a normal party per say…except…the ambiance and over all vibage. There was a definite sexual pulse that was bigger than a usual house party. I gotta say… it was fuuuun! People look at you differently, the men and the women…it’s enticing as they try to figure you out. Give you the once over; everyone’s feelers are on high. If we had tentacles they’d be outstretched wiggling about the room; our little suction cups pulsating…

So here’s a ditty (or a few)…how many of you who are not official “swingers”, ever been curious @ possibility of swinging? Ever had any thoughts of introducing other people into your relationship mix? Have you ever had or at least considered having a threesome? Ever imagined what it might be like?

While @ the party it got me all thinky…I started mulling ideas over in my little brain…monogamy & polygamy… what are people into these days…really?

Chew on it sec. Sava’ the flava…

…Hrrrmmmm…personally, to me? I think peeps are polygamous (*gasp!!!* I know…Shocking!!!)

As “dignified” (or whatever) as we’d like to think we are…psssht we’re still just animals (yeah…I’m goin’ there). Animals with basic needz n’ instincts: food, shelter, procreation…the end. Tho, even with our instinctual basics what differentiates us from any other mammal is our ability to make “choices”. Hey, if you wanna be in a monogamous relationship the rest of yo life, do the damn thing. If you’re a lil’ relationship ADD and wanna go to a swingers meet n’ greet, ain’t no shame; I salute you!

After the party, I’ve been hitting my friends up for thoughts on the matter. I can’t tell you how many people have told me that women are the ones more inclined to wanna be “monogamous” while men are “polygamous”…Sure, I can see it, men are the hunters, they gotta go out n’ spread the seed etc, but yah know what I say to that?

Meh.

It’s a valid opinion and I think there is definitely some truth there, no doubt, but I know PLENTY of very sexually aggressive women who are NOT interested in monogamy and who are spreading MORE than their fare share of “seeds” (nudge, nudge…wink, wink). In fact most of the aggressors at this “meet n’ greet” were women! So put that in yo dick n’ smoke it.

I personally think it’s all based on the individual and what they feel comfortable “sharing” or not sharing. Plain n’ simple. You can analyze ALL you want, but when push comes to shove, YOU like what you like. And you have that ability to choose.

Sometimes you get two people who click and wanna spend the rest of their lives together. They might swing…they might not.

Sometimes, the idea of being with one person the rest of your life literally makes you vomitously ill; so you chose a more polygamous route…sweet.

Hey, you do what you gotta do.
(Now I just gotta figure out what I wanna do…)